Women's Health, Your Way

Ask & Search With Clara

Welcome to a new standard for women's health answers.

GIRLHOOD / Proof That “Good Enough” Can Still Be Good

Proof That “Good Enough” Can Still Be Good

Proof That “Good Enough” Can Still Be Good

If I posted a photo of my new “home gym” on Instagram, I could absolutely fool you. I’d angle the shot just right so the lighting hits my dumbbells at a flattering angle, crop out the chaos, maybe even toss on a filter for good measure. You’d probably think, Wow, she’s really got it together.

But if you zoomed out even an inch, you’d see the truth: the other half of my garage is a jumble of bikes, scooters, soccer balls, and whatever random kid treasures have migrated there. There are holes in the walls, dust on the floor, and a general vibe of “this was never meant to be a gym,” because… it wasn’t. It’s a garage.

That’s what you might see.

What I see is very different. I see a small corner of my life that doesn’t belong to anyone else — no toys, no laundry piles, no one asking me where their water bottle went. It’s not fancy, but it’s quiet. It’s mine. And for thirty to forty minutes a day, that’s enough.

I’ve always been someone who prioritizes movement, but working from home changed the game. Suddenly, I was living, parenting, and working all in the same few rooms. I didn’t need perfect conditions to work out; I just needed a place that wasn’t tied to everyone else’s needs. A place where my brain could switch gears the second I stepped inside.

So no, it’s not influencer-worthy. But it’s real, and it works, and it gives me a tiny pocket of breathing room in a very full house. And maybe that’s the real win: not the gym itself, but finally letting “good enough” be the bar.

More from GIRLHOOD

This week, the New York Times ran a piece that could genuinely lower women's odds of getting ovarian cancer, then put it behind a paywall. I clicked, hit the wall,... Read more
I spent part of this week at a fertility conference, sitting in a talk on "restorative reproductive medicine," a term I'd seen floating around fertility TikTok but never actually had... Read more
I don't think I'm alone in not being able to look away from the Lindsay Clancy case — the Duxbury, Massachusetts mom currently on trial for killing her three children.... Read more
I had a 15-hour travel day on Monday, so naturally, I binge-watched the last few episodes of the most recent season of The Ultimatum, and DAMN.For anyone who hasn't fallen... Read more
I used to love summer. Warm sunshine on my face, a good book in my hand, the salt air wind in my face.Then I had kids.I should start by saying... Read more
One of my brother's best friends was just diagnosed with breast cancer at age 33. When he told me, I was taken right back to when my friend Lisa called... Read more
For most of my twenties, I exercised to be smaller. Not stronger, not healthier, smaller. The metric was always the same: take up less space, burn more than you consumed,... Read more
There's a trend going around on social media called "things that are worth the money," and forty-five minutes into it, I'd added a Hatch alarm clock and the softest modal... Read more
Apparently up to 80% of women will develop a fibroid by the time they turn 50. I only found this out a few weeks ago, at age 37, which feels... Read more
I'm not ashamed to admit it: Pride and Prejudice is my entire personality right now.What I am a little ashamed to admit is that I hadn't read it until now,... Read more