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The Wellness Edit / Dear Diary, Let’s Get Real: Journaling for Vulnerability

Dear Diary, Let’s Get Real: Journaling for Vulnerability

Dear Diary, Let’s Get Real: Journaling for Vulnerability

Okay, let’s talk journaling. Not the “dear diary, today I ate a salad” kind, but the real, soul-digging kind that makes you feel like you just had a heart-to-heart with your wisest self. If you’ve been craving more honesty with yourself, journaling is one of the best ways to peel back the layers—and yep, it gets especially good when you lean into vulnerability.

Not sure what to write about? Don’t worry, I’ve got you. Start with this: What does vulnerability mean to me? Do you see it as strength, fear, or a messy mix of both? Just letting yourself define it can be eye-opening.

Next, rewind to a moment when you truly let your guard down. Maybe it was telling a friend how much you value them or admitting you didn’t have all the answers. How did it feel to be that raw? Sometimes those moments end up shaping us in ways we didn’t expect.

Finally, ask yourself: Where could I invite more vulnerability into my life? Is it in your relationships, your career, or even in the way you talk to yourself?

 

Here’s the thing: being real isn’t always comfortable, but it’s often the magic key to deeper connection—with yourself and others. So grab your favorite pen, light a candle, get cozy, and let it flow. Who knows? You might just surprise yourself with what spills onto the page.

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